In the 1980’s actor Michael J. Fox
played a teenaged character named Marty McFly in one of the most popular movie
trilogies of all time: Back to the Future.
McFly is sort of a runt of a kid who doesn’t usually fit in with his peers. One
of his main character flaws is his reaction to taunts that he might be too
“chicken” to do something (something often dangerous). This is his weakness,
because it makes him angry. He cannot abide the idea that someone might think
he is too afraid to respond to the “challenge”. But whenever he does, something
always goes wrong. The ironic thing about all this is that in his desperate
desire to avoid being thought of as fearful, or a “wimp”, or “chicken”… his
often foolish, unstoppable actions are themselves all motivated by fear. His
biggest fear is that someone will perceive him as afraid… as a “baby”… as a
nerd… or in some other undesirable way.
The fear of man will lead a person to
do strange things: silly things… even crazy things. If others knew that we were
speaking or not speaking, or doing something a certain way because of worry
about what someone else thought, they would probably laugh at us. That’s why we
rarely share these kinds of things with others. On many occasions, what others
think (or what we perceive others are thinking) is the primary driver of what
we say or don’t say, and what we do or don’t do.
In preparation for the Bible study
on this topic that I am beginning on July 2, I have been making a list of how
this works in my own life. Just how much of what we do, think, and say is
motivated by the fear of man. For example, one of mine happens in the
restaurant. I have been served a meal that is less than satisfactory. I
complain to Joanne about it. But when the waiter/waitress comes by and asks,
“How is everything?” inevitably I respond with “Fine.” Even if it’s terrible.
Why do I do that? It’s because I don’t want to make waves… don’t want to get a
bad reaction… don’t want to get someone in trouble… don’t want to make someone
feel bad… or some such idea. Not everyone thinks the way I do. I have a brother
who very easily sets the restaurant straight when something isn’t quite right.
Many people have no problem doing this. But me? I just “let it go”.
Have you ever hesitated to bow your
head in observable prayer in a restaurant to ask God’s blessing on your meal?
How about going along with a group doing something you knew was wrong, just so
you could fit in? What about speaking about Christ to another person? Not being
able to say no? Avoiding a certain person? In our study together we are going
to examine what fear of man does to us, and how we may fear the Lord more and
fear man less, and experience transformation in the power of the Holy Spirit. I
invite you to join us if you are in the area.
May the Lord deliver us from the
fear of man and its many manifestations, so that we might fear Him and live to
His glory. AMEN.
Psalm 56:3-4 (NIV) 3 When I am afraid, I will trust in you. 4
In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I will not be
afraid. What can mortal man do to me?
Psalm 118:4-7 (NIV) 4 Let those who fear the LORD say: "His love endures
forever." 5 In my anguish I cried to the LORD, and he answered by setting me
free. 6 The LORD
is with me; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me? 7 The
LORD is with me; he is my helper.
I will look in triumph on my enemies.
Isaiah 41:10 (NIV) So do not fear, for I am with you; do not
be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will
uphold you with my righteous right hand.
1 Peter 3:13-16
(NIV) 13 Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? 14
But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are
blessed. "Do not fear what they fear; do not be frightened." 15
But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared
to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that
you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, 16 keeping
a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good
behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.
PRAYER: Father, teach me the fear of the Lord. Let me understand
it fully, and let me practice it maturely, so that my respect and love for you
is true. In Jesus’ name, AMEN.”
Jesus
Christ is Lord!
Scott